By SunnyJasrotia, 8th Aug 2012 | Follow this author | | Short URL http://nut.bz/1kmn-fl1/Posted in Wikinut>Health>General Health>Children's Health
At a certain stage of development of the child he may show excessive aggression. In the children's behavior appears temper, anger and rage. What can parents do to influence the over-aggressiveness of their children? Divided psychologist Vera Povetkin.
If your child suddenly became combative, hurting other children or adults, threatening, rude, do not rush to conclusions about his aggressiveness, not in a hurry "to take action."
Who will win the "battle"?
In society, anger and aggression are condemned by the senses. So many adults are getting used to suppress their aggression, as well as teach children what to be angry - it is bad. But do not take tough measures, first observe the child, try to understand what is behind his aggression. Maybe the kid was upset? Or is it something you want, but he can not get it? Gives him pleasure is to offend someone, or a way he is forced to defend themselves?
You will not be afraid of child aggression. There is nothing more frustrating when it occurs as a reaction to some external event. Any of us in response to a situation of conflict, unjust treatment, danger, hurt and undisguised hostility may become aggressive. The only difference is that adults can control their emotions and express them constructively. The children are not yet able to regulate his conduct by social norms, and strong-willed efforts.
The child violently express their dissatisfaction, not worrying about how it will look similar to the eyes of others. He starts to scream, yell, throw on the floor ... parents are ashamed of such behavior fumes, they are trying to "fight" to win: beg, scold, scream, slap ... The result of this "battle" - even more aggressive kid.
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